Christmas arrived early for my little one this weekend.  The grandparents arrived in town bearing a fabulous gift:  a Britax car seat.  Perfect timing, considering that it’s already difficult to fit my baby into her infant seat, especially when she’s wearing bulky winter clothing.  

I’ve learned along the parenting path that you simply can’t underestimate the value of having a great car seat for your child.  Of course, safety is the first priority when selecting a car seat.  But after that, a car seat designed with the latest bells and whistles–like recline options or plush car seat covers–can go a long way in terms of child comfort and adult happiness while on the road.  Sure, those features may cost a bit more initially, but they are the kind of gift that keeps on giving. 

Picture this: happy child vs. screaming child.  Relaxed parent vs. frazzled parent.

I’ve heard parents all too often say, “my child screams whenever I put him in his car seat.”  While the car seat isn’t always to blame for unhappiness on the road, sometimes it is responsible for those distressing cries.  I learned that from experience–I know a quality, comfortable car seat can completely transform car rides.  I’ll take a happy ride over the alternative any day.

Jump on over to baby-wise.com for a great selection of safe and cozy car seats. 

November 21, 2007:  The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (”CPSC”) has announced a recall of select models of Boppy Slipcovers, which are imported by The Boppy Company of Golden, Colorado.   

The recall involves particular Boppy Slipcovers (see CPSC for specifics), including certain velvet and boa slipcovers. 

According to CPSC,  “The zipper pull on the slipcovers can break, posing a choking hazard to young children. In addition, paint on the zippers contains excess levels of lead, which violates the federal lead paint standard.”

No injuries have been reported.

For more information, check out the CPSC news release. 

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Note:  If you own a Boppy Slipcover, keep in mind your slipcover may not necessarily be affected by this recall.  When I heard about the recall, I got a little jumpy when I saw a slipcover resembling mine on the CPSC site.  After checking the tag on my slipcover, I was relieved to learn it wasn’t recalled (the date code didn’t match the slipcover listed on the CPSC site).

Yesterday, I took my baby to the pediatrician. She’s plagued with a cold. I suspect a sibling brought home the pesky virus-so I’m guessing based on the number of tissues that have been consumed in my house lately.

Cold and flu season has arrived. Frequent and vigorous hand washing (for at least 20 seconds) is considered the best way to prevent the spread of infections, like colds and the flu. You can help keep your children healthy by encouraging them to wash their hands frequently, especially upon returning home from an outing and before meals. Consider teaching your kids to sing the ABCs while hand washing-hopefully, that should be long enough to do some decent scrubbing.

Besides hand washing, parents can also help keep their children healthy by:

–considering flu shots
–taking antibiotics as directed (keep in mind, antibiotics don’t cure viral infections, like the cold)
–cleaning frequently used surfaces, like counters and toys
–avoiding people with colds or the flu
–using alcohol-based hand sanitizers, especially useful when you can’t get to a sink
–using shopping cart or high chair covers

The U.S. Public Interest Research Group has just released its 22nd Annual Toy Safety Report. 

Click here to see a summary of the 2007 Trouble in Toyland report.

Thanksgiving marks the start of holiday road trips for my family. As much as I love traveling with my children, I’ve learned that road trips, short or long distance, can be stressful when children are “bored” in the backseat.

Thankfully, though, there are plenty of kid-friendly “on the road” boredom busters. Here are a few ideas:

1. Check out MomsMinivan.com, a site with 101 Car Travel Games & Road Trip Ideas for kids of all ages. This site even has free printable bingo cards!

2. Purchase your child a lap desk, like the Alex Desk to Go (a travel must-have in my family!).

3. Pack a bunch of small toys (preferably ones that encourage quiet play!), but don’t let your child play with them all at once. Along the way give your child a “new” toy, and swap out the old–this way you get more play mileage out of each toy.

4. Bring along movies. If you don’t mind allowing your children to watch a video or two along the way, portable DVD players have really come down in price and may be well worth the investment.

5. Load up on Music CDs. There’s nothing quite like driving with happy, singing children!

I just finished decking out my mantle with one of those holiday-themed greenery garlands–sure, the greens are artificial, but the glittery Pine Cones look quite elegant. My kids aren’t the only ones excited that the holiday season “officially” rings in this week with the arrival of Turkey Day. I’m also ecstatic, especially knowing that I can now count the number of days until Black Friday on one hand.

There’s no doubt, I love shopping. But, I’m also smart about it. I don’t like to clutter my closets with things I won’t ever use. I tend to think most people on my shopping list share similar thoughts. So, when the holidays come, I try to buy practical gifts.

This shopping approach gets me into trouble sometimes–because I’ve discovered that it’s really hard to keep a gift a surprise when I’ve bought something that someone could use right away.

When it comes to my own kids, I’m tempted to pull out whatever gift I’ve purchased and let them start using it. That’s why I’m nearly certain I will fail at keeping the puzzles I’m going to buy my toddler this week a secret. My toddler is completely ready for puzzles (btw, puzzles make great gifts at this age)–and, I know they would make for hours of entertainment during the hustle and bustle of holiday preparations.   

Do you shop and tell, too? If not, what’s your strategy for keeping holiday gifts for your children a surprise?

Today, the Washington Post reports that ”the vast majority of toys are safe.”  This news couldn’t come at a better time for holiday shoppers.  For those who remain concerned about toy safety in light of recent recalls, the Washington Post suggests this option:  go shopping with a lead-test kit, choke-test cylinder, or sound meter in hand.   

There are 38 days until Christmas. On days like today (the kind which whoever said, “long days, short years,” must have had in mind), Christmas sounds like a world away.

If this year is anything like last year, or the year before, or the year before that year, I’m bound to find myself rushing around at the last minute, going store-to-store, trying to think up a gift for someone on my shopping list–and, without fail that someone is usually the most difficult person to shop for on my list.

But, this year, I think I’ve found a way to make holiday shopping easy, especially at the last minute. It doesn’t involve committing to finishing my shopping “early” or abstaining from last minute shopping–that, I know, would be just about as successful as one of my many New Year’s Resolutions.

I’ve come up with a gift giving shopping “theme”–one broad theme for my entire gift giving, although multiple themes, one for each person on your list, can also work. This year, “books” are my general theme. For example, for my friend’s children, who are grieving the loss of their beloved family dog, I plan to buy The Forever Dog. One child on my list who is crazy about ponies will likely get a stack of pony books. A toddler on my list will likely get one of those “Who Loves Baby?” Photo Books, which I will insert photos into ahead of time for a personalized touch.

Theme shopping is easy because you can plan your theme in advance of actually setting foot in the shopping mall or sitting down at a computer. So, even if you wind up shopping at the last minute, you will at least have a good grasp on the type of product you’re going to buy.

Theme shopping can also be a lot of fun. When it comes to dreaming up a theme, your imagination is the only limit. Here are three themes to jumpstart your creativity:

1. Gift cards or certificates. Who doesn’t love receiving a gift card? One of the reasons gift cards are growing in popularity is because people like receiving them! Eliminate worries of an “impersonal” gift by selecting a store, restaurant, or service with the interest of the person you are shopping for in mind (e.g., baby store gift certificate for expectant parents). You can also personalize a gift card by unique wrapping or packaging (e.g., putting a certificate inside a baby bottle).
2. Magazine Subscriptions. Consider giving a magazine subscription that will appeal to the person on your shopping list (e.g., a children’s magazine for kids, a cooking magazine for someone who loves to cook).
3. Health and Beauty. The possibilities for a health and beauty theme are practically endless. For women, “gift” boxes of assorted makeup or perfume samplers, like those found at department store makeup counters during the holidays, make nice gifts, as do cologne samplers for men. For children, consider assorted lip glosses, chapstick, or bath products.

Happy Theme Shopping!

A sure sign your child is growing up is when they start asking to go to a friend’s house or begging to invite one home. Gone are the days when the idea of a playdate originated with you. And, certainly gone are the days when a playdate was more about grown up time than child socialization-oh, how I fondly remember going to playgroups with my baby at a time when she didn’t yet know she had hands, let alone understand the concept of play.

Whether your child goes to a friend’s house or one comes to yours, safety is no doubt a key concern.  This is probably especially true when your child receives a play invitation that doesn’t include you.  When you’re the one leaving a child at another’s house, particularly a home that you haven’t before visited, you may want to ask these questions before you make the drop off:

• Is my child emotionally ready for a playdate without my presence?
• Who will be supervising my child?
• Who else will be in the home at the time of the playdate? (e.g., if your child is intimidated by “big” kids, he may feel uncomfortable if his friend’s older siblings are also having friends over at the same time).
• Are there firearms in the house? If so, how are they stored?
• What type of safety-childproofing exists in the home? Are there gates on the stairs–toddlers aren’t the only ones to be concerned about on stairs?).  Are doors equipped with safety latches or alarms, like sliding doors that open to balconies–curiosity can get toddlers and preschoolers alike into trouble.  Are hazards, like matches and chemical agents, safely stored?
• Are there pets? If so, what kind? (this may be an especially important question if your child has allergies, or if you have concerns about a particular breed of animal).

When it comes to your child’s safety at a friend’s house, you simply can’t underestimate the value of asking questions.

A mom friend just asked me if I knew of a good place to buy “Made in USA” toys this holiday season. The best advice I could offer her was to look online.

After having ventured to two brick and mortar toy boutiques this past weekend looking specifically for American-made products, only to encounter disappointment, I’ve pretty much decided that online shopping is the only way to go–at least, if there’s any hope of efficiently crossing names off Santa’s shopping list.

I’m not the only one thinking that online retailers are the way to go this holiday season. Check out Regina Lewis’ recent blog entry on where to buy American-made toys. She suggests consumers kick off their shopping at:  How Americans Can Buy American  and Still Made in USA.com.

If your holiday shopping goal is simply to find manufacturers who seem attentive to toy safety, you may want to check out Melissa & Doug products.  Even though some of their products are (or have been) Made in China, Melissa & Doug appears attentive to consumer safety, at least according to the company’s Sept. 2007 email sent to concerned parents.